Measuring Your Penis

If you've ever measured you penis, you've probably discovered you can add a few inches simply by moving the ruler around the base of your cock. Depending on where you start measuring from, you can have an eight or nine inch lady killer despite your genetics. However, if you wan't to accurately and consistantly measure yourself, you should be using a bone-pressed measurement.

It's important to measure yourself in a consistent manner if you are interested in actually tracking your exercise progress as there is no point is spending a part of every day doing PE, if you can't actually measure if it's working. As well, the bone-pressed measurement is the 'standard', so if you are interested in seeing how you stack up against others, you better measure yourself in the same way.

To properly measure yourself, lay the ruler along the top of you penis, and push the ruler in against the pubic bone and the base of your dick. You will likely discover that you can gain 1/2" or more just by pressing the ruler firmly. This half inch gain isn't visible, nor is it usable, but it is considered part of the overall length.

Use this technique each and every time you measure your dick, and you'll be able to accurately track your progress.

Conversations: A confident dick

I have a number of close friends whom are very honest, enlightened, and don't shy away from sex-talk. They range from gay men, single ladies, happily married couples, and my wife. Anything and everything is fair game in the course of a conversation, and the opinions expressed here represent the collective wisdom of these people.

Just about everyone jokes about penis size. If someone drives a fast car, or works out a LOT, people kid that they must have a small penis. If a man is a real jerk, it must be a result of a small cock. Basically, if a man does anything to artificially inflate his confidence, he's got small junk.

So, it seems that a big penis equals confidence.

But who is it that is demanding a bigger penis? Is it your partner, or yourself? I have never had a complaint about my endowment, and none of my friends have uttered an unhappy word about their spouses' dicks. It seems that an average penis is just fine. I know that not all my friends are the same, yet no one is disappointed. The thing my friends do have in common is they are comfortable in their own skin. They are humble and quietly confident.

The spouses have all agreed that they'd rather a man who knows how to use what they've got, than one that does not. Sex isn't just pounding away like a pile driver, it's a lot more - it's an experience. Likewise, most spouses don't pull out a ruler to see how their man measures up, they measure their spouse by their skill.

A big penis does not equal good penis.

So if you're spending your free time increasing the size of your average penis, and doing nothing to improve your sex technique, is there really any benefit to you or your partner? You might feel confident about heading to the bedroom, but what happens once you get there? How confident will you feel if you don't have the skills?

My friends love their spouses, and their cocks. They really do. They make suggestive comments and playful gestures to their partners, and respectfully 'brag' to their friends - but we all know its not because any of them have record-breaking dicks, its because they have 'good' dicks and know how to use them. That being said, if the casual observer overheard these private conversations (and sometimes they do) they'd assume that everyone is packing a huge penis. I know I think that way! The way my friends talked about their partners made me assume everyone was hung like a champ - but it simply wasn't the case. 

So if entire group of different women (and men) aren't shy about playing-up the sexual ability of their spouses, despite the fact that they all have very average and different penises, and the average observer is going to assume that this praise is because these men must be well hung, what does this tell us? A confident man has a big penis - no matter what size it is.

A penis isn't only measured by its length and girth, it's also measured by attitude and confidence. I suggested this to my friends and everyone agreed - a man who gets naked and is self-assured (despite body type and endowment) and has a great, caring and passionate attitude in the bedroom, has a 'big cock' in the eyes of their partners. Their cocks look and feel big despite their size, and leave a definite impression. I understand this isn't going to be easy to accept, and there will always be exceptions to this rule, but a whole group of people who are having satisfying, confident sex MUST be doing something right!

So bottom line: you can stretch and jelq to increase the size of your penis, but if you really want a big cock, get confident, get caring, get passionate.

A confident man equals a big cock.

30 Day Challenge

Last week I decided to get back into a simple routine to see if even the most moderate exercises could again yield results. Last month I said:

Interest in Jelqing and Penis Enlargement has really dwindled. In the past month I haven't had the desire to devote time every day to the cause. I'm really happy with myself, and I don't see much reason to change.

This still holds true, but reviewing my own blog I realized that the skeptic in me was doubting my own results. Yes, I've made gains and yes, those gains have correlated with me doing stretching and jelqing exercises, however over the past 4 months I have also been improving my body and overall health through regimented exercise. (I will write on this another time - I think it's very important!) So I've wondered if losing a bit of weight etc. hasn't been the reason for my perceived gains. (Bottom line, this wasn't a very controlled experiment - too many variables)

So, for 30 days I will follow this this routine but I will only do 1 or 2 cycles.

Let's see what happens!